Getting through with intentional stages of grief
Through | Week 5
Today we heard from five different members of the Redeemer staff as they each talked about one of the five stages of grief.
MESSAGE NOTES
Getting through with intentional stages of grief
Through • November 12, 2023
Teacher: Adam Barnett, Melanie Fell, Leanne Benton, Dave Brown, Alison Myers, and Garland Tackett
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Leanne Benton:
Rick Warren
There is no life without change. There is no change without loss. There is no loss without pain. But grief is a choice.
John 11:33-35 NIV
When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come along with her also weeping, he was deeply moved in spirit and troubled. “Where have you laid him?’ He asked. “Come and see, Lord,” they replied. Jesus wept.
Psalm 34:18 NIV
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
1 Peter 5:10:
Restore
Confirm
Strengthen
Establish
Psalm 23:4 NIV
Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
2 Corinthians 1:3-4 NIV
Praise be to the God… of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.
Dave Brown:
Romans 8:18-22 NIV
I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us. For the creation waits in eager expectation for the children of God to be revealed. For the creation was subjected to frustration, not by its own choice, but by the will of the one who subjected it, in hope that the creation itself will be liberated from its bondage to decay and brought into the freedom and glory of the children of God. We know that the whole creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time.
Alison Myers:
Matthew 26:36-39 NLT
Then Jesus went with them to the olive grove called Gethsemane, and he said, “Sit here while I go over there to pray.” He took Peter and Zebedee’s two sons, James and John, and he became anguished and distressed. He told them, “My soul is crushed with grief to the point of death. Stay here and keep watch with me.” He went on a little farther and bowed with his face to the ground, praying, “My Father! If it is possible, let this cup of suffering be taken away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.”
Surrender became my pathway to peace.
The Serenity Prayer
“God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”